Happiness

Happiness does not mean smiling and it does not mean laughing out loud until the eyes bring tears. We may laugh with a fire inside us that ignites and burns our souls, and sorrows are arranged in the shelves of our hearts. We may laugh with brokenness, wounds, and broken hearts inside us. The most honest sense that exposes a person is the eye. The tongue lies and the mouth lies. Both of them are masculine, so the male lies. Does this make sense that every male lies? No, no, no, the eye is feminine. It is honest and does not lie. It carries sadness and joy at the same time, but it is more lying and hypocritical. When it is very sad, it tears, and when it is very happy, it sheds tears. In both cases, it sheds tears, but how do we explain it? Look at my facial expressions, you will see me in sadness with my mouth closed and in joy I smile if the mouth does not lie and the tongue does not lie! Likewise, the female betrays, betrays, and hurts. This is not her character and nature. There is an external influence, which is you, Adam. Eve was created pure. She was created simple in her appearance, simple in everything, so she is simple and very beautiful. Beautiful while sad and happy! Beautiful in her reproach! Beautiful and caring! When she cries, she is sad, and a female only cries from sadness that weighs heavy on her, sadness the size of planet Earth or perhaps Jupiter. When she cries, she is at the peak of her sadness. When she smiles, she is happy. If she is simple! Happiness is a cup of coffee with the one I love, caressing his fingertips, glances that we secretly steal, and laughter silently until our stomachs hurt. Happiness is the seventh month and hearing his intermittent laughter. Happiness is caressing the hand of a newborn, full of vitality, and tickling an infant. It is holding the hand of an elderly person while taking his hand and cutting with him. Follow the road step by step and make yourself in the direction of oncoming cars. Happiness is to smell new cotton clothes! Happiness is represented by a message carrying longing, a missed and long-awaited call, and a message carrying longing! Happiness is praying for goodness for someone you love behind his back! Happiness is a spring that bursts from the heart, not from the outside, and the generous, contented soul, innocent of the filth and filth of vices, and the ambitions and desires of life, is happy wherever it is, and however it is found. Whoever wants happiness should not ask about money, silver, gold, palaces, orchards, and winds, but rather should ask about his own soul, which is within him. So happiness is a friend who understands you, a lover who reads you, and a companion who makes you feel happy. Happiness is having someone who fears your pain! He makes you his first priority, makes you smaller, and tells you that everything is not worth your sadness! Simplify your face to people, mention their virtues, abstain from their faults, remember them only with good, be pure in heart and tongue, and focus on your faults, and ask God for safety for all. Perhaps all of these are embodied in one person, and perhaps several people. The positions of human beings in our hearts differ. The heart is like a cupboard with shelves arranged in ascending order. Each place is designated for a number of people. There are friends, here are loved ones, there are work colleagues, and here are classmates. Some of them are for the public, and some are forbidden to others, even the closest relatives. This is happiness! Many of us have people enter our lives who change them and become wandering around in the closet of our heart, passing between the shelves, sitting wherever they want. We call them happy people or fair souls. We find them in bad times and good times. Some of them remain as they are, and some of them remain mysterious. Just as some leave the world, our hearts are just like it. Some leave, some stay, and then leave after a while, even if their stay is long. Our hearts need renewal and arrangement, and to shake off the dust and restore their conversation and purification. I am not calling on you to abandon your friends, but rather I am calling on you to rearrange them. It is not situations that make friends, but rather friends that make situations. How is this? When you fall into trouble, you only find the people closest to you, but whoever saves you from it becomes the one in trouble. Your true friend is the one who immerses you to the core in a predicament. Either he drowns with you or you come out together. He is the one who pulls you out of the clutches of worries, such as when he finds you sad, depressed, and the whole world is about to be destroyed. You look at him with a look full of comfort and reassurance that there is a beautiful tomorrow. A true friend is the one you press the keyboard buttons to call when you are in trouble. He is the one you think about when sadness surrounds you and worries surround you. He is the one who alone makes you full of vitality. He is the one who shares sadness with you before joy. Our lives are not devoid of sorrows, but we make their time longer. In fact, the time for sadness is very short, and we are the ones who make the time for joy very short. We could have made it longer. When sadness comes to us, time freezes, the clock stops, those closest to us move away from us, and some people fall into disarray. In a moment of sadness, the heartbeat accelerates, the eyes become heavy with tears, and your tears and all your sorrows fall. It is not expensive to hold it in. Bring out your tears and fall with them your sorrows. Do good and do good. Smile when you meet your friends and work colleagues. Smiling does not cost you much, but it brings joy to the hearts of others. Accustom yourself to smile in all your situations, even when you are sad, do not show sadness in your eyes, because sadness means weakness and means your need for others, and do not make your life a book for others to browse so that everyone gets bored of it and you become alone in your sadness, alone in your joy, alone in your love, alone in your longing and not finding anyone to share a cup with you. Love coffee. If you lose the location of your seeds that you sowed one day... the rain will tell you where you planted them... so sow goodness on any land, under any sky, and with anyone... you do not know where you will find it and with whom you will find it... plant something beautiful, even if it is not in its place... so it will not be lost. It is beautiful wherever it is planted. Do not steal anyone’s joy and do not conquer anyone’s heart. Our lives are short and we need to leave a good impact. So prepare yourselves to let your days be of respect.. humanity.. life! The beautiful fingerprint remains even if its owners are absent.

She is the harvest of our worries. With our tears, she quenches the groans of our wounds, so that tears of joy are born for us from the womb of sorrows and soar in the sky of happiness. From our tears, a smile blooms.

I learned that yesterday is a drawn check, tomorrow is a post-dated check, and the present is the only liquidity available, so we have to spend it wisely.

I learned that you should not measure yourself by what you have accomplished so far, but by what you have to achieve compared to your capabilities.

I learned that some of the people who hurt us the most are the people to whom we gave all our trust, because, knowing our secrets, they use them against us the day we disagree with them.

Everything starts small and then gets bigger, except for disaster, which starts out big and then gets smaller.

I learned that success is not everything, but the desire to succeed is everything.

I learned: If a person does not find something in life to die for, then most likely he will not find anything to live for.

I learned that it is better for a person to regret what he did, than to regret what he did not do.

I learned that a simple, unexpected gift has a much greater impact than an expensive, unexpected gift.

I learned that competing with oneself is the best competition in the world, and the more a person competes with himself, the more he develops, so that today will not be the same as it was yesterday, and tomorrow will not be the same as it is today.

I learned that when you hire people who are smarter than you, and you reach your goals, you prove that you are smarter than them.

I learned that a person cannot develop if he does not try something that he is not accustomed to.

I learned that losers say: Success is just a process of luck.

I learned that those who have the courage to face failure are the ones who overcome difficulties and succeed.

I learned that the dictionary of success does not contain the words if and but.

I learned that a person must dream of the stars, but at the same time he must not forget that his feet are on the ground.

From the Book of Life Excerpts